This is my first post so hopefully I'm doing this right because I need some advice! I have been married to my husband for 11 years. We were both married before. I have a 13 year old son, he has a 21 year old son, and we have a 4 year daughter together. My husband's ex-wife never remarried. They were married for 16 years and have been divorced now for 18 years. They get along very well.