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So in response to what happened at court (earlier blog) from my husband trying to modify his order so he can get more time. Mom said she is not agreeing, so they had to go see a mediator. My husband had to pay 300 dollars. At the mediator she told him that she will not agree to meeting Scott because he abandoned her. he did not abandon her, he came to iowa initially while they were STILL together and then they split because they got into an argument. he never left his son, he was still going to see him.

i need to know if you guys think we are asking for to much...court is next Friday

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We have been to court so many times we can not afford an attorney so we went through the current order and changed it to how we would like to have it, tell me if I am missing anything or if we are asking for to much or if you can not understand something

IT IS THEREFORE ORDERED, ADJUDGED AND DECREED:

I am ready to scream!!!!

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So with today being a holiday Stepson did not have school. This was our weekend, and on Sunday morning biomom informed us to drop ss off with a stranger because she had to work and the other options for drop off we use were unavailable. My husband tells her no, that he is not going to drop him off with just a stranger and that she has until 11 to find someone to get him that he KNOWS or that we are going to keep him. So 11 passes, 12 passes, 1 passes and then about 1:30 or 2, the phone rings. It is biomoms dad telling us that he is home now that Scott needs to bring ss home.

UGHHHHH

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I know this is going to seem kind of confusing if you have not read my other posts but bear with me. My dead beat kids dad of 3 hired a private attorney to take me to court. Ok, so we had court depositions, and now this is what his lawyer is trying to do. In the paper our marriage announcement between my husband and I they asked years of school.. Ok I went to college from 99-01 however, dropped out because he had left and I could not keep up with trying to raise my kids and going to school ,and I refused to go on welfare, which now I wish I would have to finish my degree.

200

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The save Madison campaign is up to 200, everyone give themselves a big pat on the back and a special thank you to Anne for getting us all on the ball to save our children!!!

stepping back....

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So I have quit having any communication with bio mom. My husband hates dealing with it. The other night she called, and was talking about me like she always does, expecting me to grab the phone and cuss her out, like I use to do. Instead I sat there and kept my composure on the whole situation. She told my husband that if he would talk to her like an adult, she would stop on her end with all the drama. So he listened and not once said anything bad, but yet played into her little world that she wanted.

contempt to court.......

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So bio mom still hates me, after 4 years of being with my husband. In my last post I told you how she got mad and went to get a restraining order becuase I told her she needed to put her 5 year old son on a diet and quit giving him cheetos and coke as a snack. Now last night she tells my husband if he can tlak to her like an adult she will start being an adult. They had a nice conversations and even though half of it was her bad mouthing me, I bit my tongue and said nothing.

Am I bad step parent?

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I need SERIOUS opinions. As my close friends know my marriage is a DISASTER right now. Not becuase of my husband or myself but becuase of his childs mother. For the last four years I have been in court 4 times, had the police called 29 times, and now had DHS called on me becuase I told her her kid needs to go on a diet that he is obese. Cayden is 5. He is 89 pounds. He has complined his heart hurts when he is out running around, he can not run distance without panting and saying he needs to rest, and he has 4 rolls on his tummy. Not to mention rolls on his back.

he told them he hated them and now hes taking me to court

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So my kids dad is taking me to court because he doesnt want to pay all the child support he is paying. He thinks that now that Scott and I are getting married, his payments should get lower. So after the child support recovery unit denied his case he went and hired a private attorney. This is after he told me the reason he couldn't see the kids is because after child support he has no gas money, and he can't even keep food in his house, etc. etc.

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