So the BM and I seem to be getting along. Do not know if this is a show or not. We are getting married in July, and my fiance has been trying to switch the summer vacation so we have him for everything and while all the family is here from out of state. It is stated in the court papers both parents must agree and submit the paper to the courthouse by June 1st in order to change weeks. FOr the last year, all we heard was no he is not going to be in the wedding, my son will not take part, etc.