This is my first blog ever. I'm 28 years old and I can't believe that I am a stepmom. I always took care of myself and promised myself that I wouldn't have children at a young age. I always strived for more and I didn't want a child holding me back from my goals. Also, my family is very traditional so having a child before marriage is looked down upon. A year after getting out of a traumatic relationship I met this very sweet guy... It took quite sometime before I accepted him as a boyfriend but when I did, life felt wonderful again!