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Submitted by iamlosingit on Mon, 07/23/2018 - 7:39am

So as if life is not screwed up enough, I just found out my grandfather's health is worse than was explained.  My cousin that shared her info with me on the cabin trip was not fully informed due to her cognitive abilities.

A large mass was discovered near my grandfathers heart.  It is very big, and so close to the heart that no surgeon will operate on him.  We were told he has anywhere from a few days-few months left.  They have already gone to multiple hospitals for "second opinions" and get the same result. 

Depression sets in

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Submitted by iamlosingit on Fri, 07/20/2018 - 6:17pm

So...DH just announced today that BM has now blocked him on the house phone.  This doesn't do anybody any favors.  Despite the CO stating that a parent has to be present for drop off and pick up, BM is never there. So by blocking DH, she has eliminated all contact if there is an emergency or a complication.  I hate her.

We have 7 more years of this shyt. 

I think DH should file contemp but the CO has no instructions on means of communication.

7 more years.

pt 3 cabin delayed until nxt week sorry

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Submitted by iamlosingit on Fri, 07/13/2018 - 7:00am

so we have been back from the cabin since Sunday....but had visitation again on Monday and yesterday.  I am a bit pissed because DH/disneydad has dropped the ball on EVERYTHING.  The truck has still not been unloaded, the house is a gdamn disaster (he STILL hasn't touched the visitation dishes from 7/2, now we have fruit flies) we haven't gone grocery shopping...oh and to top it off we have a wedding to go to that is two hours away TODAY and he has not checked to see what we need to do to our camper in order to run it only off the battery. ...So guess who only got four hours of sle

Visitatin 8 days of hell Pt 2-cabin

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Submitted by iamlosingit on Tue, 07/10/2018 - 2:33pm

Day 4 (Cabin Day 1):

SIL wants to follow us to the cabin.  DH falls behind on getting everything ready to go.  SS has not changed his clothing since Tuesday.  DH has to have a long talk with him to get him to pack a bag for the cabin and to change into something else. SS has plenty of clothing here.  I'm impressed DH didn't pack for him.

Day one "visitation from hell"

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Submitted by iamlosingit on Tue, 07/03/2018 - 5:21pm

So in a last minute panic, DH has decided we are hauling the gdamn camper to his friends house overnight to watch fireworks tonight. He's pissed because he didn't plan ANYTHING for this week with SS other than the cabin trip and says it's a waste of vacation. I'm pissed because the camper is not ready at all, and I think it's a waste of time. I have to go because I'M the insurance holder and if anything happens on the drive I'm the one who has the roadside assistance policy. They won't do anything if it's just DH.

Week from Hell about to begin

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Submitted by iamlosingit on Mon, 07/02/2018 - 8:45am

So today marks the day where we have ss until Sunday 7/8.  dh has normal visitation today from about 3-830, then tomorrow he picks up ss at 4p.m. and we have him until 5pm on Sunday.  SS fish died over the weekend (second fish in a year) so I am waiting for disney-dad to go nuts this week trying to compensate. 

Happy "Feed Everyone Day".... I mean "Father's Day"!

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Submitted by iamlosingit on Mon, 06/18/2018 - 2:48pm

So Father's Day this  year was on a non-skid weekend. Yay.  DH had to pick up ss at 9am.  We had just gone grocery shopping at Aldi on Friday and got a big pack of boneless skinless chicken for $11, some hotdogs, brats, chips, etc.  I paid $50, dh paid $80.  i was relieved because the chicken alone (once washed and split) would last us at least a week. 

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