Hello, My 12 year old stepdaughter will not wash her hands after going to the bathroom! will not use toilet paper, will not take a shower, brush teeth, we just spent $1,000s of dollors on braces!will not clean her room & is geting F's in school!I don't think she will pass this year? I have been going through this for almost 3 years!My wife will not do anything about it in fact the behavier is almost always rewarded! I know what you are thinking why am I still in this mess? I love my wife & stepdaughter but it's at the point I can't stand being in the same room with my stepdaughter!