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Narcs and special treatment for their kids

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Submitted by Jcksjj on Wed, 02/24/2021 - 11:56pm

Is it typically a narcissistic trait for them to demand special treatment for their children as well as themselves? Just curious because usually when I see people talk about having narcissistic parents they talk about how awful they were to them.

BM definitely has narcissistic traits, but despite the fact that that was going to just ditch SD altogether at one point, she treats SD like shes the center of the universe in other ways and expects everyone to worship her.

SD cries to the school counselor

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Submitted by Jcksjj on Thu, 02/11/2021 - 2:33pm

Since DH didn't sign up for counseling like BM wanted, BM set it up herself and her and SD basically are telling the counselor a bunch of lies. Today the counselor sent an email to DH and BM about it. It's pretty clear SD is being coached by BM to make it sound like she's neglected. And the counselor is basically admonishing DH while BM is apparently perfect.

MILs birthday is more important than DS' first birthday, I guess

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Submitted by Jcksjj on Sun, 01/31/2021 - 3:16pm

So FIL had asked to have SD this weekend (MILs bday) because they don't know yet that she's living at BMs fulltime. Here's the convo with DH:

FIL: I was wondering if we could get SD next weekend.

DH: Shes not here next weekend but you can stop by if you want.

FIL: I'll see what happens and let you know

DH: do you want us to stop there instead?

FIL: that would be nice. Its MILs bday and SIL is stopping by with her kids so we'd like to have all the grandkids here. Maybe you can ask BM if you can have SD for the day.

Should skid still get perks?

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Submitted by Jcksjj on Fri, 01/22/2021 - 3:17pm

So given the situation (spoiled skid only coming to our home 2 days a month because our house isn't good enough) would you continue giving skid the "perks" of having 2 homes to the same degree? Small example: easter basket. Big example: bedroom all to herself.

ETA: obviously this is a long way off, but what the heck do you give a kid for Christmas and birthdays thats never at your house? Looking at all the wasted money in her room irritates me. Just candy?

PAS?

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Submitted by Jcksjj on Mon, 01/18/2021 - 1:09pm

So SD left her email up when she left. Which we weren't even aware she had. But she was emailing BM the whole time she was here. Mostly complaining about the food and saying she hardly ate anything. And BM is clearly playing into her complaints, especially the ones about how boring it is here.

Eta: DH said the food she was complaining about she told him she loved last time she had it. Hmm. 

Also, SD emailed her a bunch this morning saying how worried she was that she was late to pick her up. So her attempt to look like moty failed miserably.

Why SD needs to live at BMs

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Submitted by Jcksjj on Sat, 01/16/2021 - 5:03pm

For a recap: BM flipped out randomly and said DH needs to go to therapy because SD said he doesn't spend enough time with her. And now she can only be here 1 weekend a month (oh darn). 

SDs version of why she wants to be there: our house is boring, she has a better tablet there with more games and a texting app.

I guess letting her do whatever she wants all day just wasn't good enough. Sorry, DH.

 

SD lies about not having a toothbrush here

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Submitted by Jcksjj on Sat, 01/16/2021 - 9:13am

So no drama when BM dropped off SD, but she did send a toothbrush and toothpaste with because SD told her she didn't have a toothbrush here.

I asked SD why she didn't just tell us she needed one (she said she lost hers) and she just said idk. She's told us she needed another toothbrush tons of times before. Idk why that would even get brought up to BM.

Well, after 6 years BM finally pulled the "you can't have her" card

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Submitted by Jcksjj on Thu, 01/07/2021 - 3:42pm

So things were supposed to go back to 50/50 since SD will be in school full time again soon. And BM just last week had agreed to that. All of a sudden today, she messages me that she is changing the schedule to have SD all the time except DH can have her one weekend a month. And then threw in that she wants to claim her on taxes every year. She says the reason is SD says DH doesn't spend enough time with her and so she wants to stay at BMs.

Inlaws pathetically trying to cause more drama

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Submitted by Jcksjj on Fri, 01/01/2021 - 11:51am

The latest on the inlaws and their never ending quest to promote the worship of SD. 

SIL, who pretends her nephews dont exist, posted another flowery post about how wonderful SD is and pictures of her spending the night at her house. There was another kid there too (her BFs daughter) but the post is only about SD.

MIL quickly cycled through profile pictures of the other grandkids (or at least half of them) so that she could land on SD and keep it there.

FILs cover photo is only of SD.

Wtf is wrong with these people?

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