This post is for anyone who has gone through something similar. My SKs have falsely reported mistreatment and abuse in our home and their mom is playing along with it and has taken away DHs right via court till further notice. Of course he is devastated but now I fear DYFUS will come and being that this woman and her husband have their hands in police pockets I'm scared that my son will end up paying for their false allegations. I don't think the kids meant harm I think they told stories where she twisted words but now i honestly want nothing to do with them.

To recap the party was fine be it all very uncomfortable. I know what I got myself into with DH but the first two years we all were very separate for birthdays and everything. The only thing that brought us together was school and sports which is of course understandable and fine. However last year, 2 months before I became pregnant I asked if he wanted a big happy family w her her husband and her parents, in laws etc or would he have boundaries and keep it kind and cordial. He said boundaries, kind and cordial.