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Grown Ass SD32 from Hell

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I have blogged about my sister being the BM from hell but now I need your advice regarding her being a SD32 from hell.

My dad and my SM have been married longer than my parents were married (parents married 18 years/Dad and SM 27 years). I was 10 years old at the time of the divorce and my little sister was 5. We also have an older sister that was 15 at the time (she’s another crazy blog that I’ll save for later). The issue is my little sister who is now SD32.

Pretending to have forgotten . . .

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I am disengaged from SD14. Got really tired of the black cloud that was following her to our house very weekend and the constant all woe is me attitude like I owed her something after I married her father (which BM divorced because she found a better man when SD was 1). You’d swear DH cheated on BM and was a deadbeat father the way this kid acted. I got tired of how she treated my husband and tired of him taking it so I disengaged. Lately, DH has been taking back his balls with a vengeance!

Just pisses me off!

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DH just pisses me off . . .he's been in a mood all week. I'm guessing because I refused to add SD14 to my cell phone plan about 2 weeks ago (see previous blogs). It never fails he gives me and my BS14 the silent treatment then right before he goes to pick SD up he starts talking again and trying to be nice to us. I guess he wants her to have a good weekend. F&*K HIM! I'M SO OVER IT.

Rant Over!

So disappointed. . . .

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DH and I have known each other for 10 years married for 3. I have BS14 and he has SD14. SD lives with BM. BM isn’t a neglectful parent but she does work a lot. I can say that I believe she loves SD and she takes good care of her. Because she works a lot SD14 in the beginning was left in the care of neighbors, as she got older BM thought she should be able to stay by herself sometimes overnight. The overnight thing isn’t something that DH agrees with (I really don’t care . . .I’m disengaged) and it is a point of contentiousness between he and BM.

My daddy, the guilty daddy??

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Background: My parents were married for 18 years and divorced when we were; baby sis 5, me10, older sis15. We are now baby sis31, me36, older sis41. About 2 or 3 years after my parents’ divorce my dad married my SM. My father did not leave my mother for SM (they have now been married longer than my parents were). Although I do believe my dad cheated I do not believe it is the only reason he left my mother. I think they were not compatible. My mother was a very religious woman (my dad not so much).

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