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I'm a BM who's a SM dream come true, so why am I stuck with C*ntzilla??

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So I left my XH many years ago, there wee DV and addiction issues. I was glad to see him go! He has since gotten the help he needs with both issues and has become the man I always knew he could be and a wonderful, yet guilty part-time dad. While I have no love for this man, and could not even think of reconciliation, I am happy for his progress, for the sake of my kids and his new FDW. Yes I said it, I like my EH FDW.

BM=Control Freak!!

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Control!! It all comes down to control.
Looking back on it I guess I always knew it, but hind sight is 20/20 and it is clear as day!! BM acts this because she has lost control of BF.

Thank You for the advise and some random thoughts!

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Thank you to everyone who responded. I talked to BF last night, mentioned some of the things that were talked about on my last blog, he called legal services today, talked with someone and they are having a lawyer call him back! I was a little harsh on him but stop sulking and take action!

New,introduction, LONG and deprate for a place to vent!

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Hi everyone! I am so happy to have found this place. BM is a virtual stalker and stalks my FB page thru a 3rd party so I’m hoping she doesn’t find me here lol. I really need a place of my own to vent.

So a little background about me, bf and our situation. It’s LONG complicated and chaotic, but I will try to keep it as short as possible! I have 2 kids bios 13 and biod 9, SO has 2 also 2 boys 4 and 6.

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