I am married for the second time. My first wife and I were DINKS - double income with no kids. Things did not work out and I soon met my second wife. She is almost the exact opposite of my first wife. She is very loving, warm and extremely nurturing. I was on the eve of retirement and so we decided to get married and sell both our properties and move into a new house together. She has three sons. The oldest was in college when we met and has never lived with us. After college, he almost instantly bought a house and he now has his own business and is quite successful.