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And limbo is good. LONG

I have recently told my SO that I love her, I love her two boys but I am also happy that she has asked for space because that gives me the freedom to not have the responsibility that is 'THEM' first and foremost in my thoughts. She was a bit taken back. I wrote for her a long email that outlined our issues and it was divided between her issues with me, and my issues with her. We have discussed these on certain levels and I have decided that whenever we reach a crossroads that I will circle the issue, and save it for a councilor that I hope to soon be able to afford.

OK, I am not getting the outpouring of advice I had hoped from my last blog!

I am looking to hear advice, good, bad, ugly about how I should approach this. Was it because I accidentally mentioned her name and you all are named Heather?? Haha
She has recently told me she needs space, and I am a guy, I have issue with that but after thoroughly pissing her off with text messages that she will rarely now answer, I will. I have a new conundrum though. My parents are coming to this new town for the first time and I want them to meet her, the kids, and the dog. What terrible timing. Anymore advice for the ol' Kevin The Man??

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Recent e-mails

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> There's so much love between us, but there's
> also so much that we just butt heads over time and time
> again. Yes. Last night I wanted you, wanted to make love to
> you and would have if you'd touched me. But the anger is
> there. And when it surfaced so quickly, it just made me
> think that we're better off apart. I spent most of
> yesterday either in tears or close to it and have woken in
> the same state. I know that you're furious with
> me, and maybe you need to hate me to let go. I don't

Kevin The Man is lugubrious

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Wanted- full size punching bag with chain hanger.

I need to re-cap to make this all make sense. I was told that even though I took the week off from work to go to Tybee island with my SO and two SSs and the MIL, that I wasn't going to be able to go because MIL wanted the week to be about her and the boys. At the time SO and I had been arguing and she didn't want to deal with that at all and just wanted boy time. I was miffed gloriously and made it known that if the situation was reversed I would tell MIL that she had to like it or lump it.

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My fingers shimmer over the keys as I write this.

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WOW, talk about a 180

Hello Everyone,

Buckets and Peeps

Hello Everyone!!
My name is Kevin The Man (named by godson and it stuck ) and I would like to first say that this is an awesome site and I have gained A LOT of insight as to my own behavior and that of my SO with the very valuable comments from very wise blogging people. The abbreviations take a bit to get used to though (meh).

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