Can anyone tell me exactly what the rules are for child suport when their are children by two separate mothers and two different payments are made. 1st ex wife has two children with boyfriend and 2nd ex wife has one. So is it 25% of his income for the first 2 and then another 20% for the third one? The reason I am asking is the he is paying both moms the same amount and 1st ex wife has two kids. SD is 16 almost 17 so there is only another year and half to go until support is no longer paid on her.

Last week BF asked BM to be able to see his son Saturday from 12-5. She said yes and he emailed back saying that he would pick him up at Shop N Save (the usual drop off /pick up point) at 12:00. She said NO you have to come to her house. He said NO I will pick him up at the usual place. She said she had placed a call to her attorney and would advise him. The next thing you know BF is getting a call from his attorney saying he needs to negotiate a pick up point/drop off point for Saturday. At $280 an hour for the attorney you can imagine what this would cost.

BF emailed BM to see if we could have ss this weekend from 12 to 5 since it was his weekend for visitation. BF had stopped overnight visitation because of BM's accusations of us saying "adult things" in front of ss, our not feeding him properly etc. BF still sees son for Wednesday night visitation and he and BM always meet at a store halfway between the two homes at 8:00 when visitation is over. Well BM decided to consult her attorney and have her attorney call our attorney to say that the usual drop off place was not acceptable. Apparently it is only acceptable on Wednesday nights.