Hi everyone. I was so excited to find this site. I've been looking for a site that maybe I could find some solid advice from others who know what I am going through. Let me start by saying, I am not yet a step mom. I have been dating my boyfriend for two and half years now. This past July we moved in together. He has full custody of his two sons, one of which is 15 the other is 14. He also has an 8 year old daughter, which he gets EVERY weekend. I love his kids. I also have three kids. But my kids moved out of state with their dad.