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Nothing to do with stepkids- SO being overbearing

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ok, I know this has nothing to do with stepkids or stepparenting. But I’m hoping to get an outsiders point of view on this. 

My boyfriend and I have been together for some time now. We have had issues with his kids and therefore I’ve taken a step back. I told him his parenting (or lack thereof) is the reason why. 

So for the series of events that have followed;

I need to vent!

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ok, I have been dating this guy for a while. And we’ve started bringing the kids around each other about 6-7 months ago.  I have bottled up all these little irritants about his kids (and his behavior towards his kids) to the point where I am being overly critical of them and beginning to dislike them. I know how I am, and I need to get this out before I write them off. 

Pajamas please

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ok, new to dating a guy with kids. I have 2 of my own. We have had occasional sleep overs with his kids coming to my house. 

I have a 13 year old and 4 year old. Both boys.

He has a 9 year old boy and a 6 year old girl. 

His daughter Doesn’t like to wear pajamas. She sleeps in underwear. I have seen this happen when I spend the night at his house. I was a bit shocked when it happened the night they stayed at mine. 

Soon to be Stepmom?

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ok, I need help. 

I’m a 30 year old mother of 2 boys. I have been single for many years and have become quite accustomed to being on my own. So I understand that I may need to learn to bend a little on my ways and can be stubborn about that. 

Late last year, a man came waltzing in my life and has been an absolute dream. He is smart, funny, romantic, helpful around the house and with my two boys, the list goes on. 

He has 2 kids of his own that are both the same ages as mine. An older boy and a younger girl. They hit it off with my kids from day one.