BM thinks shes the MOTY, accusing DH and I of "verbally and physically abusing" her kids (or in OUR case, asking SS11 to stop harassing SD9, and DH physically (but not harmfully) moving SS11 away from SD9, who he was KICKING!), and saying that our house is unfit for her kids (what, because we don't have a thousand animals running around, and we have food in our cupboards, and it doesn't reek of smoke everywhere you go?)...and just basically thinking she's better than us.

DH finally got on BM's case about SS11 STILL not being able to read - even though she recently got a hefty disability cheque for his ADHD (which I'm assuming is to help with learning supplies, etc) - and I couldn't believe what he told me her response was..."He's only 11." :jawdrop: :jawdrop: :jawdrop:

So, we got the skids for the weekend - it was the first weekend with them after the wedding. And surprisingly, nothing got broken :jawdrop: When DH was getting the skids, BM told him that SS10 had the police over at his school (TWICE!) because he was throwing rocks onto the yards of neighbouring houses. And now, he has to play in the little kids' yard (because of the extra supervision). BM told DH that she suspects it's "because of the wedding" and all the stress of his dad getting re-married ... WHAT-THE-FUCK-EVER!!! SS10 showed no signs of stress while he was at the wedding.

A little background info on what's been going on: at the beginning of summer, FDH had a blowup with BM (she was demanding where her CS was, regardless of the fact that there was a holiday so mail was delivered late - his CS goes through FRO; and she proceeded to call him every name in the book rather than talking to him like a human being) so he didn't pick up the kids for the whole summer - aka the BEST summer we've had in the last 7 years!