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I'm really proud of the little guy
So's son has not behaved at school at all this year. (kindergarten) He's been kicked out of class multiple times, suspended from latchkey for a week or more multiple times.
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And this is why I wish SO could afford a lawyer
He's apparently at work printing things out to go file an exparte order for a temporary custody order (BM blew up his phone after we went to bed I have no idea what it was about he hasn't said)
He wants his joint parenting plan made temporary till mediation can occur. I thought exparte emergency orders were for abuse or dangerous situations, he's saying he needs to have a CO now that protects his parenting time and her from interfering, again not sure what she said. I knew he was going to go to the courthouse to find out about how to get a temporary custody order but exparte?
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Your not my puppet master!
SO asked my parents to help with pick up and drop offs of his kids at school because I'm not always available and he cannot afford latchkey plus his ds keeps getting kicked out of latchkey. I also expected BM to be a nutter regardless of who SO has do this. Sure enough SO got a tirade of texts about the time she would normally get the kids on her time from latchkey.
Her bitch "he can't get MY kids I don't know him!"
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What my divorce taught me
I won't take abuse from anyone, not physical, not mental, not emotional and sure as heck not verbal.
SO got an earful after everyone is in bed. A decoration fell off a shelf and bonked his dd on the head, did it hurt yeah I'm betting it did (left a red mark on her head). However she does her typical pout and whimper with volume level of whine increasing based on the response daddy gives.
Him from across the room: "are you okay?"
Her: *sniff, sniff, moan*
Him not getting off his laptop: "are you alright?"
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What I was told
SO's dd came up to me today and said "can I tell you something?" I said sure.
"Bubby and I listen to mommy in the vent in the bathroom we can hear her say inappropriate things about daddy."
Me: "oh well you know your daddy loves and cares about you very much and that's what's important and you know we don't like it when your nosy and listen in on people right?"
Her: "I told her to shut up or I'd have you beat her up."
Me: "you shouldn't talk to your mom like that even if your mad ar her, it's not nice."
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Again with the lolz
It's been a weird Christmas
Kids got presents they were all appreciative of what they got
SO got socks (socks for Christmas is a tradition in this house) and a new shirt
I got socks I bought for myself and SO appropriated as his gift to me (really seriously couldn't even pull off some bubble bath?)
My dd regifted to SO and I presents from her dad's white elephant but they were so not ment for a 17y/o girl and at least she tried
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Was a good little Christmas.
SO again made Christmas happen of course at the expense of not paying our bills.
Kids were thankful, and so delighted. My dd wants to "die in these boots!" Probably the first brand new not used shoes I've ever got her. SO's ds loved his jeans, mine his new multitool, and SO's dd her monster high doll.
BM had been complaining she wanted her kids early SO said no and let her know she could get them when she was supposed to as he has a flat tire (I was taking my kids to the exil's and stopping by my aunts and uncles who live next door to BM)
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OT/ but so have to share!
Things this last year have been very rough for us, SO unemployed for 6 months (he just got a job) and me working through school, clinicals, and internships on my way to get my Paramedic degree.
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Parenting plan too detailed!
SO finally heard back from BM's lawyer, her secretary to him his parenting plan would never be accepted as it's too detailed. Uh isn't that the point to avoid continued court action, or mediation and the costs. It's detailed for a reason because BM can't harass and control things that way it's all in the parenting plan. anyone ever heard of such crap too detailed?
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SO and court
BM is apparently done dragging her feet now that her bf is paying for her divorce, she went and got one of the best divorce lawyers in our area only this lawyers practice and her mental capacity has been declining in the past year (her son is the CEO of the company I work for and we all know how his mom has been doing)
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