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I need StepTalk!

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It saved me from losing myself in this crazy life I have. It helped me find my voice again and once again stand up for myself.

I need these "faceless" men and women and their kind words of support. Please don't shut us down...

Slightly OT- What does a "promise ring" signify in 2010?

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When I was in high school (graduated '92), a promise ring meant the boy "promised" to ask you to marry him in the future. Usually a gesture to get a girl to "cave in" so to speak...

What does it mean now? Princess's boyfriend, Stepping Stone, gave her one last night. Supposedly it was for her birthday, and they ordered it and it just arrived. It looks like a fancy class ring, with both their birth stones, and their names on each side of the band.

Loca Grande called and it wasn't so bad... but goodness, she's an idiot!

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It didn't kill me. It was the first time we've talked on the phone since she pissed me off in January. She called and left a message that said she knew I was still upset but it was very important, or she wouldn't have called otherwise.

I texted her husband that I didn't have her number, so if it really was important, she'd have to call me. She called back 5 minutes later.

Another financial kick today...

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Ugh. If I didn't feel so sick tonight, I'd go get me a daquiri! Ok, first off, many of you saw my vent earlier about the possibility of the skids on my insurance... Still contemplating what to do. I'm a custodial stepmom of 12 years, and I have always been a part of the skids medical care. Loca Grande does not pay CS because she is a crazy b%$*& that doesn't stay employed in one place for too long, because it would mess up her disability checks for her mental illness.

I never Steptalk from work, but I am so ticked right now

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We have our annual insurance meeting today to find out what our school district plans to offer next year. I gave Loghead all the papers last week so we could talk it over, so I could simply sign the forms today and leave.

Yea, well, procrastination is his middle name... So I called him a few minutes go to ask about it, and said I'd like to to drop my coverage to a lower plan to save money. "Well, we have to add all the kids to your plan since we don't know my job plans yet..."

I asked what that meant for my take-home, and he said, "You'll stil get paid."

All is calm on the Homefront...

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Princess and I spent the morning together, trying to play with different updos for prom. She was kinda cranky, and I warned her I'd smack with the hairbrush like I used to when she was little, and then I'd be done. I told her I wasn't putting up with any crap. She laughed and said, "You used to pretend you dropped the brush on my head."

I Love Loghead! He stepped up...

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Princess has had a rough week, and has taken it all out on me. Earlier this week, I told her I thought we needed a Girls Night on Friday and she agreed. It's something I've been wanting to do for months, but she's just always so busy with work and Senior year stuff. I was very excited about our night, and had planned to play with her hair to decide on prom hairstyles. I even bought new nail polish and her favorite snack foods and planned to rent a movie. My friends invited me out for the evening, but I said no- I'm hanging with my daughter!

No wonder skids act the way they do!

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Tonight when I got home from work, Loghead and PITA were working out in the yard, so I parked the car and joined in. After about 2 hours of us working side by side, they left to take a truckload of trash to the local dump.

I go in, I shower and start dinner. As I'm cleaning up a major mess in the kitchen (that I didn't make, but didn't complain about BTW), they come in, laughing about something. They each start to read a section of the newspaper, and then PITA asks, "So are you gonna right that note or what?"

Not "tired" anymore... Part 2

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Hey gang! My new user name is "Last-Wife." This crew is stuck with me, whether they like it or not! LOL I will not take a backseat any more. I am empowered and will be a force to LEAD this family. I am the only "mom" those skids have known, even though they have a mother. And I'm not the Second Wife. I'm the "Last-Wife." I am full of hope and happiness. I am moving forward, and ready to face the challenges that come our way.

Loghead will support me. Loca Grande will be jealous. Princess, PITA and LazyBoye will listen and respect me. Gibby will share fries with me.

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