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This is not a BM/skid issue. Just need to vent.

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Submitted by livizzle on Mon, 08/01/2011 - 2:50pm

DH has a female friend that he’s known for over ten years. We’ll call her C. She has two children by two different men and has been married three times, one of which began and ended all in a matter of a few months while DH and I have been together. C goes from man to man and has a reputation for doing so. None of this makes her a bad person. However, for the past few months (since she split up with her DH), her FB status updates have consisted of things about my DH (how songs remind her of him, etc.).

Herrrre we go!

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Submitted by livizzle on Sat, 07/30/2011 - 9:28am

DH has seen his children very minimally since their summer vacation started (June 2nd). He works 60+ hours a week at a commission only job to make ends meets, so it’s hard for him to just take off. On his scheduled weekends, BM always comes up with some excuse as to why they need to stay with her. “They’ve been at your mom’s all week.” “I miss them.” “I didn’t get to see them much this week.” Blah, blah, blah.

Just more stuff.

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Submitted by livizzle on Fri, 07/15/2011 - 7:58am

SD9 has said things the past few times that she's been over here that lead DH and I to believe that BM is cheating on her DH. Once a cheater, always a cheater, right? Well, SD9 started crying last night, saying that she missed BM. SD said that BM doesn't get home from her orthodontic assistant job sometimes until 9p or 10p (even though the office closes at 5p). She said that BM is very distant and is always on the phone because she's "on call". Now, I know that orthodontist's offices don't stay open until 9:00 at night. Honestly, it wouldn't suprise me if she WAS cheating on her DH.

I'm selfish, and I know it.

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Submitted by livizzle on Thu, 07/07/2011 - 9:11pm

I wish that DH didn't have kids.
I wish that we were able to spend this time in our marriage (we were married in April) as "newlyweds".
I wish that I didn't feel so abandoned when skids do something "amazing", and it's "kids this, kids that".
I wish that I wasn't selfish, and I could accept all of it better. After all, I knew what I was getting into, right?

I HATE CS!!

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Submitted by livizzle on Wed, 06/29/2011 - 4:20pm

Our rent is due on the 1st, and we have next to no $$ to our names. DH is a car salesman, and this has been an extremely slow month for him. 60% of his check is taken for CS, until it is paid. DH just finished paying it last week.

I don't know what we're going to do. I'm so upset.

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