I try real hard with sd's, but sometimes the younger SD, and the oldest SD, just annoy the shit out of me.. I mean, were all adult's here, I don't see my mom a whole lot, maybe once a year, I see her... These flipping "SD'S" call all the time, or the younger of the SD's comes over, all the time, without calling. Youngest Sd brings over the grandchild, her son. and he just gets into everything without  asking. I mean shit, between each of the gch, and her adult dd's who act like babies, time is always spent with them, when it comes to spending time with their mom.