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Submitted by Love51 on Thu, 01/24/2013 - 12:37pm

The more I think about what is in front of me, the more I question my ability to do this. It isn’t about my boyfriend, he is the best think that has ever happened to me. It’s his 14 year old son. As I have mentioned in previous blog posts, he is very troubled. His parents split when he was only a year old. His BM had primary custody until 4 months ago and she and her family spoiled SS rotten, partly because they could and partly just to shut him up. He was not disciplined and there was no structure.

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Submitted by Love51 on Wed, 01/23/2013 - 2:04pm

So one of the main reasons I found this site is because I needed to search out a particular issues I am having with SS14. As I posted previously, SS has a very dysfunctional relationship with BM. He won’t see her and relies on me and BD for his entire social experience. He hates school and has only one friend in the world. It’s hard to think of him as 14 because mentally he has the maturity level of a 10 year old. He now thinks of me and BD as his family. I suspect aspergers due to his behavior, lack of socialization, OCD and high intelligence.

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Submitted by Love51 on Tue, 01/22/2013 - 4:14pm

I met the man of my dreams; he is kind, thoughtful, funny and loves me. He works hard and wants to build our future together. I can't imagine my life without him and I love him so. When we first met, he let me know right away that he had a 14 year old son. He explained the custody was shared, there was a court order and no drama. He said if I ever felt there was a problem to let him know and he would take care of it. As time went on, I enjoyed our time together. I even enjoyed the time he had custody of his son, every other weekend and two nights a week.

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