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Really SD? WTF! And - We have a winner - new counsellor - I LIKE her!
Just a small vent to start with LOL
My mobile phone is playing up and I needed to make a call when I got home from work just now. So I grabbed OH's mobile - he has a work one and left his own one here today so I used it to make a call....
Browsed his texts (naughty naughty I know!) And found a photo SD sent of BM to OH....
Update. Sorry ladies I caved.... sort of :) Long :)
See my last blog for backstory...
So, Monday was nice, peaceful, DD's and I pottered around the house, went to the movies in the afternoon.
Oh - a friend of my dd's came over in the am to change the front door lock 
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rambling, venting, getting it out there. It's over.
Well.
Says it all really.
Yesterday (we have been on holiday) he was sick, so I sent all four kids (sd13, dd11, ss10 and dd8) out to explore on their scooters for a few hours alone so he could rest. (small holiday town so pretty safe) With the explicit instructions to STAY together, no going off alone, no matter what. SD13 decided to walk not scoot. Whatever.
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AAAARRRRRGGGGGHHHH it just gets worse and worse!
Date night NYE - will now just be SS10, OH and myself.
It would have actually been better to have BOTH of them.
FML WHY ME!
To be fair and give BM credit, when OH told her he was the only manager at work this week and wouldn't be able to pick them up til very late (probably about half 7 at the earliest) she did the right thing and tried to find other people to take them, SD is now having a sleepover with friends, no luck getting shot of SS though, so we have just him.
GREAT.
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well. Life is pretty crap right now. Lots and lots of bad language contained within...
Last night OH had the gall to tell me that "BM will always be his priority because she is raising his kids"
So wait, let me get this straight...
skids are his no 1 priority because doncha know they are his special little babies, spawn of his fucking that bitch, and nothing and no-one will ever hold a candle to them.
THEN apparently it's BM - at no. 2 because she's raising his kids, and is a single mum and needs all the support she can get....
Then his job, because that supports us all.... (hey you fuckwit I work too!)
skids suck
that is all.
I am just so over the whole freaking lot of them.
Please can they go home soon.
I want my life back'
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Sick and Tired and just fed up with the whole damn thing. It never bloody well ends.
Pretty much sums up my mood today.
Since OH's revelations about SD the other week things have been pretty quiet, no hassles, no dramas, she's been pretty good and no reports of missing items from the dd's (Thank God! LOL)
OT - a funny story after all the drama of the last few days....
Had the funniest conversation with dd11 on the way home from ballet yesterday. She said "Mum, do you think when God made the world he expected us to do what we have with it? All the things we have invented? Like electricity and stuff?"
Thought for a second, and replied "Well, God gave us great brains, and free will, so I think yes, he did expect us to use those things to create our world."
DD11 "Yes, I guess so, but I bet even God didn't expect us to take it as far as we have - I mean even God couldn't imagine we would make some of this stuff..... like ipads!!!"
I am SOOOO sick of SD13 getting away with this crap and never being called out on it...
This weekend we had my dd8's sleepover birthday party. I made up the loot bags for all the kids, the only one I took special care to put a particular purple item in was dd's - it's her favourite colour. The rest all just got whatever random colour came to hand as I did their bags. But each bag (except ss's) had the same items - the same sweets/chocolates and a mini nail polish and lip gloss.
SKIDS ignoring me all day, well they paid for that!
LOL - OH is annoyed.
They have been playing the "ignore Luchay" game again of late... I bitched to my OH about it last night and he tells me I imagine it....
It's my dd's birthday today, she turned 8.
We all went to the beach for the day. Was sunny and lovely.
When we get there I lay out the blanket and tell ALL four of the kids - sd13, dd11, ss10 and dd8-today to ALL put on sunscreen.
My dd's do as they are told and put it on, and put it on properly, even miss just turned 8.....
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