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HAH Take that OH I have learnt something about your games...

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Submitted by luchay on Wed, 10/16/2013 - 2:32am

So during a phone call with OH I asked how his convo with SD went regarding going into dd21's room last Wednesday... and I mentioned about her taking dd11's Bee Movie without permission from her room and that when I told her to find the disc (I found the empty case in her room which OH knows) shetold dd11 she took it to bm's and lost it.

Is it unreasonable of me

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Submitted by luchay on Wed, 09/25/2013 - 1:28am

to expect OH to discuss changes to the visitation schedule with ME before he agrees to them with BM?

This has been an ongoing issue with us for the nearly 2 years we have lived together - and I raised it (again) in counselling last night and the counsellor actually said "we have already agreed that we need to respect that when the other is not present the parent who is there will make the best decision in the circumstances" and we need to respect that decision and go along with it.

Posting as a BM - have a ? - how to handle

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Submitted by luchay on Mon, 09/16/2013 - 7:04pm

or should I just let it go!!

Ok, so 2 weeks after I asked my ex Husband for a divorce he had joined an online dating site, within a month had met "the love of his life" and within 3 months they moved in together. They are still together and planning a wedding in Italy next year. (she's nice, I like her on the whole, I am happy for her great relationship with my kids etcetcetc)

The problem is.

So pissed off right now, how do I deal with this?

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Submitted by luchay on Wed, 08/21/2013 - 6:37am

Sorry, long.

Ok, so SD13's attempts to cause fights between OH and I had been paying off big time the last few months, we have fought about HER constantly when she has been around, she is ALWAYS manipulating to cause problems - saying rude things to me or about me to my kids, being rude to me when OH isn't around, lying, stealing you name it.

After meeting with our counsellor this week

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Submitted by luchay on Tue, 07/30/2013 - 9:53pm

I was trying to explain how in a family sometimes people don't get to do what they want to or miss out on activities because it's not the best thing for all members of the family - that others needs and wants have to be considered as well,

But I don't think I was explaining myself very clearly, and I have been thinking about how it underlines some particular differences in mine and OH's parenting styles.

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