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Ok I have a question. So BF plays in a band and they have 2 gigs coming up and i've seen on their band page that BM is requesting tickets. she has gone to 2 previous gigs. I think it looks bad that shes going to BF gigs when she should not be there. also on one of the previous ones she went with BF's cousin which I also think is bad. Should I be bothered by this?

Suggestions plz

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So this is really bugging me. So BM keeps saying BF family is also her family. That is not true!!!! Only SS is part of our family she has nothing to do with us!! I want to tell SILs to talk to her to make her understand she is not family SS is. Well of course only if they agree with me. I need to start setting boundaries so she understands to leave us alone. What do you guys suggest to do in this case?

Advice on my own step-mom??

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So I would like some advice for my own situation. So my dad got remarried in his country and comes back to the U.S. and tells me he is married. No notice or anything just came back and said "hey I'm married" that's it. I was about 8 at the time. SM and I have always had problems. I now have 4 half-sisters from her. I love those girls to death. I would do absolutely anything for them. Their ages are 12, 10, 8, 6. Everything I do is what SM tells sisters not to do. My dad is a bishop in our church so because I live with BF and he has a child with something else that makes me the devil.

Am I overreacting???

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Ok this is bugging the hell out of me but idk if it should or not. So BM keeps talking to SIL's to try to be "friends" with them. So she keeps trying to hang out with them and message them constantly. Like its turning into harassment. My SIL's won't tell her to stop bothering them and that they don't want to hang out. I mean I would understand if it was my SIL's messaging her to hang out with them then I cant say anything but she has no business with my family. the only reason she should see or do anything with my family is when she has to pick up SS from my MIL's house.

How it all started...

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So I have been with BF for a yr n 4 months. He has a son (who is now 8 months old) with his ex. They were never married nothing like that. So BF and BM meet each other because of me. I have been friends with both of them for years. They start having problems so I try to help them out because there my friends. I ended up getting stabbed in the back by BM but ended up getting closer to BF. They split up but she got pregnant right before they split. BF and I get together and we stay together even thought i know she was pregnant. She had SS.

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