Well, I guess the "evil" step-mom had struck again it seems. Or at least that is what my SD has told her father. She called him yesterday to inform him that she was no longer a part of our lives. It's all my fault and in her words I got what I always wanted. It amazes me that someone can put the blame on me when she is the one who has had nothing at all to do with this family since having us thrown in jail and not speaking to anyone in over a year, steps back in one day and expects things to be like nothing every happened. Then when invited to Christmas says she will and then is a no show. (I posted about this day.) She is so selfish and self absorbed that she even went so far as to tell my husband that I will never beat my cancer because I'm so evil and do nothing but cause problems for her. First of all, when did I cause problems for her? She causes her own problems quite well all by herself and just isn't smart enough to realize that the fault lies with her. She just wants to put the blame on me, the "EVIL STEPMOM". Of course, a lot of her words were rehearsed and have the sound of Bio-mom coming with them, but you would figure at the age of 19 she would have begun to grow up a bit. I've got enough worries of my own right now to worry about what she is doing or not doing. And if voicing my opinion on her hurting her dad by not showing up at Christmas can make you not want to be a part of your dad's life, then that's pretty shallow to me and she never really wanted to be a part of it anyway if you ask me.