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O/T second job blues

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So just working my full time day job each week still leaves me short each month to pay bills. So this past fall I had to suck it up and get a second job. But I really didnt want to waitress, etc. and have to give up my nights/weekends. I am fortunate I get out of work at noon on Fridays so I hooked up with a job babysitting Friday afternoons. Yep, babysitting. At my age (30s). How sad.

Ever blow up at DH like this?

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We are fighting, about the SSs of course, and how DH kisses their butts the whole time they'r here, how they lounge around and dont do anything, how I cant get on the computer, TV, etc. when they're here - you know, the usual 7 year long fight.

DH says something like "Its not their fault they live so far from me, its the only time we get to spend together, I cant help their mother is a biatch" and at this point I am so fed up of having the same conversation for 7 years, DH s frustrated of hearng the same conversation for 7 years and I blow up

"Whats that from?"

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I hate when my SSs ask this. For example: DH and I are joking about something and we might make a funny voice or say a funny line and inevitably SS10 and SS16 will say "whats that from?" implying that what we're saying is from a movie or tv show.

What I want to say: what we're saying is from a misty, veiled realm. A realm hidden by thick forests and tall castle walls. You have entered "Imagination Land" ever heard of it????