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The Evil Step Child

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Just a run down on my life 23 years old, 2 bio kids and 2 Stepkids... SD5 is the worst! All she does is literally lie all day. If it's not a lie on her Father, then it's a lie on her full blood brother (SS10). It's starting to get annoying. DH has FINALLY seen the light in regards to his daughter, and my is he unhappy. She was talking about how she has a boyfriend and he's in the 2nd grade (she's in Pre K mind you), she doesn't care that she lies to her Mother about her Dad, and treats her half brothers (My 2&1 yo boys) like crap.

Bittersweet

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So DH's case was dismissed...if there isn't any physical proof and the kids don't speak up he's out of luck. I'm happy cause I didnt want them living with us anyways. DH is taking it hard, but he understands he has to come with evidence next time (he insists it's not over). He talked to SD5 over the phone and she treated him like SH*T!! Sad I was so angry for DH because he's constantly trying to make me feel like she's not that bad. I don't like her...she's a liar and a manipulator.

It's ALWAYS about them !!

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So we have a 3 bedroom and DH has a son10 and a daughter5. We have a son1 and a son on the way. I want my boys to share a room while the older two(who isn't with us fulltime) share a room. I don't trust those two Skids...I feel like they're rude and don't listen. They also talk bad about me when they think I can't hear.DH wants our two to share rooms with Skids. I truly don't feel comfortable with that. He's not wanting to budge...until I flip out when they hurt or negatively impact MY babies. I'm sorry to say but I do not love them. They've put me, my mind, and my body through hell.

He HATES My Mother...

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Sometimes I feel like DH isn't very supportive. It's his way or no way. Anytime we argue (which starts because I voice my opinion) he ALWAYS mentions my mom. Yes they don't like each other, but if I don't tolerate her talking about him I shouldn't have to deal with it coming from him! I barely see my family and I wish he understood how much him down talking her is hurting me....sigh

The Evil Stepmother (I Hate Disney)

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Ever since I was a little girl most of the stepmothers have been 3 things...young, beautiful, and evil. Looking in the mirror I see so far I'm 2 of the 3. It just sucks that if you're nice and fun the kids treat you like crap, but as soon as you grow a spine they roll their eyes and talk crap under their breaths. They'd rather their Father be around like all you do is lock them away in their rooms and force them to clean the house like Cinderella

Am I The Only One That Thinks Like This?!

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My Ss10 and Sd5 are BOTH cry babies!Like full blown terrible 2's tantrum cry babies! To me it's un flipping believable. I believe it has to do with their Mother. She gives them whatever they want and I'm NOT that kinda parent. You have to earn it and if you're acting like a brat you will not get it...at least not from me Dirol . Ugh it drives me insane!

22...Mother of 2...PLUS 2 Stepkids

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When I look back on my life I sometimes get depressed. I'm 22 years old and I have a 1 year old, pregnant with my second child and playing "Step Mother" to a 10 yo boy and 5 yo girl. Their Mother is a jealous ... (Trying not to curse) who snoops to try and get Information on my household. My SD is horrible! She lies on me at least twice a month, and I'm left looking like the bad guy when I go off about it. I'm PREGNANT !