We went to Court today to try and get some child support and past medicals from the BM. Turns out her attorney was the mediator when they were fighting over custody and couldn't represent her in Court so they gave her until June to get a new attorney.

As many of you know, BM has put our family through hell for the five years that DH and I have been married. Last year after BM abused SD my BH gained custody. We just learned in the past week that BM has moved for the 8th time in 5 years. (One of the many reasons DH gained custody) She moved back to our hometown in NOVEMBER. She has lived here for almost 6 months now, and we had no clue. What the real kicker is is that SD10 has been lying the entire time. About everything. And when asked why, she said because Mommy doesnt want you to know where we live or what she drives. WHY?

Ok, so it has been a very long time since i posted...But I feel the need BIG time today. I am so freaking pis**d that I feel like just screaming. As some of you know, my DH was awarded custody of SD10 about a year ago after her BM beat the crap out of her and was charged and convicted of child abuse. Well, this weekend was the BM's weekend and SD's 10th bday too. I was upset already because we wouldnt get to see her or do cake or anything, I love her more than words can say and have fought for this baby for 5 years now.

Ok, so if you dont know my situation the DH is deployed and i have visitation with my SD ordered by the Court, legal and everything. But EVERY time she visits she lets stuff leak. Last time it was that the Ex (her mom) was going to hit me if i ever tried to talk to her again at the custody change and that her mom was calling my child fat. Well I get her tonight and she tells me that she was in a play today at school. By order of the court, i am supposed to be notified 48 hours in advance of school functions. GGGRRRRRR. My question is, how do people like this get away with EVERYTHING???