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Submitted by Milannye on Fri, 05/30/2014 - 7:50am

So in reading some of the blogs and finding out that there are NO nice skids in this world! I have to wonder does all this venting and advice and ideas of what to try REALLY MAKE A DIFFERENCE... Or does everyday just keep going on again with the same disrespectfully rude skids??

And it seems all DH are totally stupid about their disrespectfully rude kids!

Ex wife

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Submitted by Milannye on Thu, 05/29/2014 - 6:53am

My husband has 4 adult children. His ex is not remarried. When his kids are in the area we often offer to take them out to supper in order to spend time with them. They ALWAYS bring their mother! We didn't invite her, nor do we want her there. My husband doesn't know how to tell the kids that for fear of them not having anything to do with him.
I think someone needs to say something.... I think she needs to know she shouldn't come...

Would you want your spouses ex to come ? How would you handle it?

How to survive RUDE adult skids???????

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Submitted by Milannye on Tue, 05/27/2014 - 9:48am

Man, I am so ready to give up. 4 adult step kids, 3 treat me like I am non existent. As well as their significant others. They bring their mommy (husbands ex) to everything. They barely can give me eye contact. On generous days they will give me a polite hello and polite good by, but nothing I between! Hubby WONT do anything because that would alienate them, so he thinks. So this leaves me to deal with it. But after almost 7 years, I don't want to deal with it...and it is destroying my love for my hubby.....

What do you all out there do?