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Am I totally horrible that I'm pissy that I have to work even when our son is born?
If it wasn't for all the money that we spend on SS (who lives wiht us full-time) I could probably go to working part-time and still be able to stay home with our son (he's due in Sept) but DH doesn't want to hurt SS by cutting back on things for him because he thinks SS will then be jealous of the baby.
Ugh! Honestly I'm at a point where I don't care if SS is jealous I just want to be able to spend time at home with my first child
Is it normal to get so annoyed at DH and SS when pregnant?
I'm 25 weeks pregnant and I'm so annoyed with DH and SS. Everything they do bothers me.
On Monday I went grocerry shopping to pick up some items for my lunches since I was starting a new job and I get up in the morning and guess who had pretty much eaten everything I'd gotten, yep SS. Seriously who eats 2 lbs of grapes, 6 bananas, 6 yogurt, peaches, lunch meat etc... all in less then 1 day? That's not including breakfast, lunch and dinner that I made him.
Need advice - I'm 24 weeks pregnant and just got a job offer
Truth is that it seems that the company doesn't know I'm pregnant and I'm trying to decide do I tell them now or after I sign the offer?
Ugh food issues with SS and BM is not helping
So we've got SS 10 full-time and we've been having issues with him eating everything insight when he gets home from school. He's only home for about 1 hour until either I or his dad get home but he'll eat everything, e.g. a whole loaf of bread with peanut butter, all the chocolate milk (gallon).
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I feel horrible but I really wish my stepson lived with BM and not us
I'm just so tried of dealing with all the issues SS has I really wish that he'd go live with his mom and we only had him EOW.
I'm 5 months pregnant and honestly I just can't take it anymore, I couldn't deal with him before I got pregnant and now that I am it's even worse.
Honestly all I want is to have the baby and not have to deal with SS at all, does that make me a horrible person? My hubby sure thinks so
I may strangle DH, he wants us to take SS with us when I go into labor
We still have a couple of months before the baby is due but it's my first so I'm a bit nervous. I asked DH what he was planning on doing with SS when we went into labor. I asked this because we had discussed the fact that SS might miss his visitation with BM since our due date lands near her weekend.
baby's due date lands on BM's weekend
So it seems that our baby's due date lands on BM's weekend. So my question is do we send SS down knowing we might not be able to pick him up if we go into labor or do we skip visitations that weekend?
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SS wants to play sports
SS is 10 and he's never really been into sports but now that he's been living with us he has decided he wants to plays sports. Fine by us but the only issue is that BM has him every other Friday night through Sunday night so if he plays on a sports team he missed 50% of all games.
We talked to BM but she's not willing to drive him to any games or allow us to do so.
What would you do in the situation?
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Not a step question but a pregnancy question
This is my first and we had a bit of a scare at first because I had skipped my period in Dec and so they thought I was further along then what showed on the ultra sound and blood test. Well it seems that I skipped in December for no real reason and ovulated in Jan late so I'm really 8 weeks along.
Now after the big scare the doctors gave me I'm a bit parinoid. I'm wondering is it normal to not have morning sickness yet? I'm not vomitting but feel a little queasy on and off through out the day but nothing other then that and being so very tired. Is this normal?
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Question about contesting a court request
Seems BM has now filed a court order for her address to be withheld. My question is can we contest this?
She's been in so many domestic violence situations that DH is unwilling to send SS down without an address.
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