So dh lost his dad when he was a kid. He had a really rough time growing up. I mean really bad! He used to have a few pics of his dad around but we have moved twice and all his pictures have somehow disappeared. He has mentioned in passing before how he doesn't really have anything of his dads. I know he feels like a huge part of his life is missing. So I had this idea. I was thinking about going to his mom and grandmother, and getting some pics of his dad and a few keepsakes and then making a little box for him to have.

I know for some of you that will be a resounding HELL NO, lol. Our Bm is decent... She was awful at first and then apologized and we have been on good terms ever since. We aren't close, but do send the occasional text from time to time. Well she got engaged to a guy, introduced him to sd, he basically "swept her off her feet" they were going to get a house and such. Well dude joins the military and goes off to training and breaks up with her through text. Says he wanted to take a break and then never talked to her again. It really bothered me.

Ok so dh has this extremely infuriating habit of comparing our daughter with sd. "Sd was holding a bottle by now, sd was walking by now, blah blah blah" I have told him countless times that all children develop differently at different times. Plus I don't want my 8 month old holding her own bottle. I want to hold her and feed her. Especially since I had to stop breast feeding. I'm so tired of his comments because it makes me feel like he thinks his other daughter is superior or something. Ugh! It's so annoying! Does anyone else deal with this?