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well sh*t

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well me and dh are officially over he moved out sunday morning so looks like no more step parenting 4 me!
watch out some new girl will be on here talking about me n i'll be the horrible bm!!
o lord and i think i would mess with it bad just cause if i had to deal with it would finaly be my turn to be the mean old bm who drives everyone nuts!!

Do your skids call you mom or dad?

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Ok question for everyone out there.. do your skids call you mom or dad even though their not your bio kids?? this is why i ask... my bio daughter calls dh dad, she doesnt remember her bio dad and he has chosen to not be a part of her life dh is the only father she has and remembers always being their for her, so when skids heard her calling dh dad they asked if they could call me mom,
i was shocked and kinda stuck so i just said that will have to be something you and your dad discuss and i'm fine with whatever you guys decide.

taxes

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Ok me and dh are kinda thinking about having another baby, but we really wanna think things through.
do any of you know how it will affect my taxes each year i mean right now i have 2 kids i claim so if i had three to claim how much would it go up?
i know it probably sounds like i'm being money hungry or something but anyone who knows how expensive kids are knows this isn't the case! i am just looking at EVERYTHING before we make this decision.
If anyone knows anything about this please let me know
thank you sooo much!

my newest issue

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ok so dh finaly talked to bm about our only being able to talk to skids for 3-10 min each time split between them, she said "i only have a certain amount of minutes that's not my problem unless ur gonna pay my bill" so dh made the suggestion of getting a land line bm shot that right down so he said "add me in as one of your friends n family so the phone calls wont use up your minutes".. so she called the next day and said she added us on her thing but only the land line and if we call from our cell phone she wont answer she doesnt care.

Do your BM'S do this crap

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bm get's it in my 2 sd's heads that when their here dh needs to take them to do fun things all day every day such as go shopping go to the movies go to the park ect. o but me and my bio kids shouldnt be allowed to come since their here to visit their dad it should only be THEM doing things together and doing these things EVERY day their here.

yet another question

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ok in my previous blog i explained how in the court order it says dh can call the skids 1x daily "for a reasonable amount of time"
well since bm's moved the kids outta state we've talked to them ALMOST every day but she will tell skids to get off the phone or make it short or hurry up you've got sh*t to do after being on the phone with us for like 5 min (our conversations have been between 2 1/2 - 7 minutes each ya i timed each one) each time.they say they will call back later but never do and sd-11 has told us if she uses the phone too much she gets in trouble.

big surprise

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ok in the court order that we got on monday it states dh can call skids 1x daily so yeasterday we talk to skids w/ no prob now today bm's cell is off all day,wow shocker, it also says in the court order that we need to give skids 24 hrs to call us back ok how much you all wanna bet that every other day she shuts her phone off???

well...

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well the skids just left sd-11 was clinging to me sobbing saying she didnt wanna go, i have never felt more helpless in my life theres absolutly nothing i could do about it i never thought i'd take this so hard.

court today

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court today was awful the judge let her move with the kids we have skids till 930 tonight then they leave for the other state we will not see them till christmas vacation. what we did get was this, we get 1 wk after school lets out they will come here bm will have a 2 wk vacation with the girls during our parenting time in the summer then skids will come back to our home until 7 days before school starts, she has to provide all transportation for everything which is nice but once again she gets her way she gets to move its what she wanted...

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