I need support from oldschool step-moms. I rasied my step-son from childhood alone with his dad. His bio-mom not present at all. He has now reconnected with her. Failing to speak to me or my husband re:the egg donor. Leaving me to feel regret. I feel as though he just wiped his feet on my heart. I totally feel as though he's my son. He is now a adult & I know this is his choice. Because she was always absent I never expected this to happen. How can I start to get over the anger and feelings of shutting him out now forever for fear of being hurt again.