I'm beyond frustrated! My stepson is ruining my marriage!I have been the main caretaker for him for the last 5 years...his mother abandoned her children to go to another country for a guy she met on the internet. I have been completely responsible for him and it has been no picnic. When I met him he was six and a complete animal. He had NEVER had rules...ate nothing but junk...no bedtime(I"m serious he was up until 1 am in the morning or later and got up at 6 for school and they wondered why he had behavior problems at school).