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Submitted by Most Evil on Sat, 09/13/2014 - 10:04am

Ok well things have been really bad for a long time and today my h. said he is leaving me. We have had horrible fights and said horrible things and I guess this is really it. The sad thing is that I do not have a soul to turn to, to help me survive. Sad

interesting article on today.com ... link

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Submitted by Most Evil on Tue, 04/02/2013 - 10:33am

Http:WWW.today.com/moms/parental-estrangement-silent-epidemic-cut-kids-1C9163139

I have witnessed several cases of parent/child estrangement, including my SD and on my own family. It is heartbreaking.

In this article it seems all the parents are wrong and all the children are right? And in the comments too.

I have cut off several siblings who chose to abandon my parents when they are old and sick, even dying. They disgust me. Of course I am not referring to someone who abused anyone.

I guess I am wondering .. why people think it is ok to do this??

OT: Does anyone know a good grief forum?

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Submitted by Most Evil on Sun, 09/02/2012 - 8:30pm

Well my dad was very sick all summer and he actually died a couple weeks ago. I am pretty numb about it and not really up to explaining it all yet, it is a long story and complicated, but he had cancer.

I think I apparently grieve like a man does, where it is difficult for me to cry. I have always been this way and envy people who can easily. I feel like it seems like I don't care when I am actually devastated, just don't really have time or room at the moment to deal with everything because of work and commitments etc. and this bothers me of course.

OT Hospital Visiting - is this a female only phenomena?

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Submitted by Most Evil on Mon, 07/09/2012 - 5:39pm

My dad is very, very sick in the hospital and has been for about 5 weeks now. He has cancer and is not responding well. My sister came down for the summer and I have been going every weekend to give her a break. Another sister is too 'busy' to commit to anything but does contribute a good bit of money to the costs.

O/T so terrible

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Submitted by Most Evil on Tue, 06/19/2012 - 9:44am

Hi all, I hate to throw a pity party but I really want to!! My dad has been sick for a while now and is in the hospital for several weeks now 4 hours away. We found out he has 'medium aggressive' prostate cancer but is too weak overall to withstand surgery. All signs point to him not getting out of this and I don't know what to pray for as he is miserable.

O/T We love you Davy Jones

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Submitted by Most Evil on Thu, 03/01/2012 - 5:06am

Actually this is step related:

Ok, I am really old now. My whole neighborhood knew all about the Monkees, watched the show and played their records religiously. Yes, vinyl!!! While I devoted myself to Bobby Sherman, I know somewhere my friend Leah is sobbing over Davy right now (as am I).

And just to relate it somewhat to ST, I have been reading all the tributes and this little item came up, although it is nowhere near the most important thing about him and his life, still, I guess it happens to the best of us:

FAMILY RIFT AS DAVY MARRIES

Male PMS

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Submitted by Most Evil on Sat, 06/11/2011 - 7:57am

Ok everyone, my DH is driving me crazy. He seems to ALWAYS be in a bad mood, and complain about things around the house, the city, the world. I am so sick of his negativity and having to hear his stupid rants on everything.

It has gotten to the point I put him on notice I am not putting up with this - it stresses me out to where I am upset when I am around him, when we used to feel better around each other.