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please help!!! bm has turned ss against us completely!!
He loves his dad and he won't even look at him. What can we do to help him see that we r not the bad guys and what BM is doing isn't true or ok? Is there anything legally we can do to make her stop this?
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legal advice please!!!!!
I'm not understanding the different custody agreements for SS... We want him every other week Friday to Friday. We want joint custody. We want to have just as much legal right to him and decisions for him as BM. So pretty much DH wants everything 50/50. Is this joint legal custody or physical? What's the difference? We are going to pay child support regardless. DH wants to be able to be involved in SS school and not have BM have more control over SS than him. Any help is greatly appreciated. Thank you.
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Well, i gave him the ultimatum. My way or the highway.
I will not come second to BMs anymore.
I will not come second to SKids anymore.
I will not have my DH planning my life with his ex and then including me in whatever decisions they have made.
I will not be disrespected by BMs or SKids and be told I'm not allowed to say anything.
DH will stand up for me at all times.
I will stand up for myself at all times.
He nor I will allow myself to be a doormat to anyone esp DH.
He will tell BMs the truth about all I do for SKids and stop taking ny credit just bc he doesn't want to upset them.
We have to pay CS even tho BM only has SS 2 days a week!!!!!!
So crazy BM is taking us to court for CS even tho SS is 11 and there's never been any legal action taken before. We pay for all school clothes, winter clothes, shoes, haircuts, any sports, game systems and games, bday parties, EVERYTHING FOR SS FOR BM'S HOUSE!!!!!! And she is taking DH to court. She thinks bc SS "lives" at her house during school even tho we pick him up after school everyday and have him til 10 sometimes 11pm and every weekend that she has him more. No bitch he sleeps at your house!!! We spend all the quality time with him!!!!!
DD3 stood up for SS's BM and pretty much crushed my heart. Read on... You wont believe this crap..
:? The other day I told DH that I hate BM and that all she does is screw with my life and I'm sick of that fat cow trying to control my man. My DD3 proceeded to tell me she loves BM because SS loves BM and that that's her brothers mommy and we shouldn't say mean things about her because BM loves SS... I wanted to cry. Even tho it showed my daughter has such a loving heart, I couldn't help but feel betrayed. I mean BM gets everything she wants even at my expense. My daughter always runs and gives her hugs.. which I hate but I have never said a word.