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Double Standerds....GRRRR

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Submitted by My3His1 on Thu, 03/10/2011 - 6:58pm

}:) I am so sick of my DH double standerds when it comes to parenting....My sd age 13 has given us grief since day one she lies, steals, gets angry & breaks/ tears up stuff....She's 13 year old hell on 2 feet yet lately dh has pretty much given up on punishing/parenting her....He feels like if she want listen, does not want to obey & is too much to handle than fine forget it....What pisses me off is that if my bd age 6 whines, fusses or has fit my Dh wants to punish her ASAP & yells at me if I don't handle it how he thinks it should be .

WTH.....Men & SC....

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Submitted by My3His1 on Thu, 03/10/2011 - 1:50pm

:? Why is it than when we women have a rough day & dare say anything/vent we are a NAG or must have the RAG...but if a man is in a crampy mood its ok for them to rant, whine, bitch ?

Secondly WTH do you do when your DH has decided that because his BD is 13 & he can no longer control( because she thinks he is stupid & will not listen to him ) that is ok to just ignore her bad behavior BUT if my BD age 6 whines, has a fit she need to be punished RIGHT NOW ....

Whats ok for his child is NOT for mine...

Is LOVE enough ???

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Submitted by My3His1 on Sun, 02/06/2011 - 1:06pm

No matter how much you love you spouse sometimes I really do not feel its enough to make it work ...not when you throw in his kids, your kids, ex's, other stresses ....I do not think love can fix everything or conquer all...I love my DH I really do but sometimes I wonder...Anyone else ever feel this way..

Ex Husbands-Current Husbands...WTH do I think I need one for...

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Submitted by My3His1 on Sun, 02/06/2011 - 12:18pm

God I swear my grandma was right "MEN" is a bad 3 letter word...My ex is a ass...my DH is being a ass....why do they think they can be a ass & its ok but we be cranky and its like " What the hell is your problem..are you on the rag "...Stupid FRIKING men !!!!!....

I am steamed .....STUPID ex ....!!!!!!

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Submitted by My3His1 on Fri, 02/04/2011 - 7:59pm

}:) I wanna smack my ex sooooo much right now lucky for him he lives 45 min away...even though our divorce papers say our daughter lives with him she has lived with me 24/7 since divorce...and with me & DH last 4 years...Me, DH & state cover expenses..she is registered for school where I live...the last 4 years my ex has claimed her on taxes because papers say she lives with him...well this year the irs held up his taxes supposedly because of child support which I never filed against him state did..and they want to know if he was entitled tax money for our daughter age 6 the last 4

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