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Covid+ BM Vent

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DH let me down again. BM tested covid+ about two weeks ago. We find out through text msg SS10 sends one night. DH was going to pick him up the next day. SS texts "Mom has been sick, waiting on covid test." Something like that. Thankfully, I had not seen SS in 3 weeks, DH about 2.5 weeks prior, so we just slightly missed the window. Had I still been catering to that first family, I would have taken care of SS in the risk period.

Is it possible to remain married and never see minor SS?

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Long post...last paragraph will give you the jist if you want to cut to the chase. Told my DH yesterday that I don't want to spend any time with my SS ever again (until further notice). Not because I don't love my SS or my DH, but because I realize my love doesn't matter much and isn't respected (keep reading), and the biggest stressor in my life at this point is the stepfamily dynamic, and I need to protect my bios and self from the toxicity.