When we last left our story (on Monday), BM had finally agreed to a therapist for SS 6.5. As a reminder, DH has been asking for him to participate in therapy since July 2015, when SS started to refuse visitation.

Today, DH was served with a motion to change visitation and order therapy for both SS and SD 11, because DH "refuses to allow either child to attend therapy with any of the professionals that the mother has suggested. (SS's) relationship with his sister is being impacted by the breakdown in relationship with his father."

She has requested to reduce DH's parenting time to EOWE (from 4 days to 2) and order "therapy by a therapist selected by the court or the children's guardian ad litem." Never mind that they don't have an ad litem at current, and we HATED the last one, but whatever.

I'm shaking, I'm so angry.

And honestly, I don't even care about visitation, other than the impact on DH, and I feel awful for even thinking it, but the money we're going to have to spend to deal with this bullsh*t! DH has been the one pushing for therapy for SS. She has refused every person he proposed up until this week, and has put it off and put it off, and put it off since July! But DH should have his parenting time reduced and be ordered to use a therapist he doesn't agree to because she says so?! I know life and court aren't fair, but this is a true perversion.