Ok I will make this short and sweet, both my ss's live with thier mom and her new dh, they have been together for years, but just got married ....a few months after me and dh got married?????

But anyway the youngest ss has been drawing pictures of him killing his teacher and others, it was so bad the teacher and the principle called his mom and then she called dh . ss has also been stealing i pods from his aunts and other small things when he thinks nobody will miss it . He is only 8 going on 9 in november....

I ran into my BM last night at the grocery store with her DH and all 3 kids my two ss's and her daughter with her new dh. I had just goten off work and went to pick up a few things, I was standing in the middle of the cookie isle deciding between chocolate graham crackers or the honey ...(trying to give my son healthy snacks he'll eat) anyway.....I see them just as they turn on the isle ....

I wonder if this worked? It really wasnt that fake, I just kept repeating how tired I was ant told our own kids ....loud enough for dh to hear "Come on guys mommy is really tired you need to finish dinner so you can go to bed"

I hope it worked, I dont mind them coming over saturday-sunday, but bm is trying to get them in on thursdays and fridays and that is just not gonna get it! Im really tired after working all day then getting my our kids from daycare, bathing, feeding, and playing with them and getting them into bed.

I guess Im still ok then with my new issue, .....due to dh and i work scheduale we have been getting sk's on saturday mornings and taking them back sunday afternoon ....WELL... BM is complaining again telling dh to start getting them on thursday or friday, well thursday is out of the question dh works overnight, so that means I would have to answer "wheres my dad?" or "when is dad coming home" questions all night!