I am new to this step mom thing. I am dating my boyfriend for almost a year now and his 4 yr old son moved in full time with us in Aug becuase we thought it would be better for him. When he first moved in he was physically mean to, hitting me with toys and so on. I never really got upset at first and it never caused hard feelings towards my boyfriend and I till recently. In the last month or two his son has now turn in being verbally and emotionally mean to me. Whenever I try and put him to bed or give him oa bath or take him to daycare he cries and tells me I'm mean.