I LOVE my soon to be dh with such an intensity it takes my breath away, makes me cry when I think about him, I miss him so much when we are apart that I feel physically sick. BUT.. and here is the but... he has custody of his 3 children who unfortunately are the offspring of the evilist, most hateful woman I have ever met. My dh was basically her whipping boy for 12 long years before SHE went out, had an affair, got on drugs and divorced him. She thought she would get the kids and he would be supporting her for the rest of her lazy life while she sat on welfare and got child support.