I've been married 5 years to my husband and he and I together have 5 grown daughters. My husbands daughter, who has 4 children is always asking us for money. It would not upset me to help her if she was frugal with her own money. She is a stay at home mom and her husband is military and he makes good money. It seems that every month that rolls by, she always needs money either from my mother in law, her mother or us. She's very manipulative about asking.