BF was dropping SS off after visitation this weekend. BM has a habit of opening the door of the vehicle to help unload SS's stuff, but just standing there inside the door and talking to BF instead so that he can't pull away because he'd hit her with the vehicle or the door. So she's going on and on, and eventually she tells him that her laptop is broken again. She said it in a way that was evident to BF she wanted him to fix it. He said, "Considering the last time I worked on your laptop I was brought to court and accused of hacking it, I don't know what to tell you." Her jaw dropped!

The last overnight visit a couple of weeks ago was cancelled. Supposedly BM's plans fell through and SS said he didn't want to come see his Dad. Well, he didn't have a problem coming to see him on his normal visitation day or staying an extra two hours...but anyway. I am going to try to schedule a lot of time during the days for me to work on my house so that BF and SS can have some alone-time together. We'll see how BM takes this.

So I told you that BM contacted me with ligitimate discussion topics and I spoke to her. Well, during that conversation she asked if I would be OK making my Myspace public again, and she would do the same, so as to hopefully alleviate some of the trust issues between us and hopefully the reduced tension would trickle down and ultimately make things easier on SS. I gave thought to the idea, made all of my blogs private so that she couldn't read them, and made my Myspace public.

So, remember over Christmas visitation, when BM spent so much time emailing us and calling us that we could barely have a good time together? Well, this offended BF's mother so much that she decided to give BM's mother a call. So BF's mother called BM's mother and let her know exactly what was going on and that BM needed to back off and realize what she's doing.