I know that my husband needs time with his kids... But I'm very frustrated that it seems to always be with out me.. Before I married him his older daughter took over the role of wife and mother of the house... After four years I would think I would be able to move past the frustration it causes me... Every time she is here or he spends daddy daughter time with her I feel like I am not important or my role has been taken... I can't seem to move past these feelings and it causes a huge fight between me and my husband every time...