So my husband had a vasectomy when he was married to his first wife. He had it reversed about a year and a half ago and we still aren't pregnant. I have had tests to see if I am fertile and everything so far has come back fine. He, however, does have sperm antibodies which may be stopping us from conceiving. I am so angry at him for getting the vas... He claims he never loved his ex, which is believable to me from the way he used to treat her..( besides the point ). Which frustrates me more because why couldn't you just leave instead of staying in a crappy marriage.