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Feeling pushed out

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Submitted by pepercash on Fri, 06/11/2010 - 11:57am

Next week makes 6 years that I have been with my fiance and I have known his kids just as long. Well now that the BM doesn't know how to grow up and let go I have to take a step back until she calms down. I am starting to feel left out because for one her fiance doesn't have to step back anywhere and he gets to enjoy the family life and the kids and I have to once again wait. It isn't like I am a new person in their lives so why do I have to. Unfortunately there isn't much I can do but to step back and let things pan out the way they are supposed to.

Nervous, for no reason???

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Submitted by pepercash on Thu, 06/10/2010 - 9:11am

I am a bag of complete nerves. The BM has a bad habit of taking the kids away and giving them back and recently they were taken away for a whole year. Now I have done alot for all parties involved and felt completely used because in the courts things were said about me that I would have never dreamed of and now I am feeling like nothing will ever be right. The eldest SD is in therapy and so the DH goes and visits with the therapist ever so often to talk to her about his daughter.

What to DO???

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Submitted by pepercash on Wed, 06/09/2010 - 1:55pm

So this is my first entry and I am kind of scared at how this will pan out. My story starts like this, I met my now fiance 6 years ago this month and I knew he had two girls but didn't find out till later that he was going thru a divorce. Maybe I should have walked away then but I didn't and so here I am struggling to smile. For years I spent alot of time with his kids even more time than their own parents did and so I got attached like if they were my own. Last year the Ex went a little nuts and I mean took them away the day before Father's day and just recently we got them back.