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Submitted by pinky81 on Thu, 04/30/2009 - 10:17am

My DH and I are in counseling right now...he says he is 98-99% out the door, yet still calls me and talks to me regularly. We also see each other almost daily, even though we're separated. He hugs me, tells me he loves me and I mean the world to him. We have separated due to too much arguing for 11 days and this is a weekend we would normally have all of our children (7) together. He is staying at his dads and wants to see how much less stressful it is at his dads house without me getting stressed out and then us having an argument.
I have several issues with this:

I dug myself a huge hole

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Submitted by pinky81 on Mon, 04/27/2009 - 9:39am

I am new to this and hoping for some great insight on how to get my marriage back on track...
I have 3 kids, my husband has 4 from previous marriages. We've been married 3 1/2 years and it's had its ups and downs and a good share of stupid little arguements.
He has now left me after a big fight between our whole family and I yelled at his kids for something he told me they said, which they didn't. To make a long story short, I blew up at them over something he said and now I'm paying the price.