Last week was unreal and this one is not starting out much better. Lets see where do I begin. In case you haven't read my other blogs my h2b slapped my youngest in the mouth for spitting in his face about 2 weeks ago, my ex found out and said he was going to have him arrested.

The birds are chripping the sun is shining and life is getting bridghter. I am a BM and after reading some of the posts on this site it made me stand back and think. The Ex (which is really a pain in my ass) called this week and ask for more time with the boys at first I said No way you agreed to what is in the paper work and that is that. Well then I got to thinking about a lot of you that want to see you kids and can't so I did a lot of thinking and decided to be the bigger person on this one I mean hell atleast their dad wants to see them right?

This past fall the ex called and wanted to talk to me in person so we met in a public location to "talk" Well he was angry about BF punishing our youngest and he began screaming at me in the parking lot telling me that he was not going to return my boys and all the usually stuff they tend too threaten.

Well gang here is how the last few days have been....Thursdays visit to Sylvan was a breeze the ex didn't show up so of course the little one had no problems or fits(imagine that since according to him the little one has those fits when he is there or not) Friday went smooth the ex picked the boys up from the sitter after school so I didn't have to deal with him (thank goodness) Sat was the youth state wrestling tournament for my 10 yr old and the ex took him. My finace' (I love that word) and I showed up befor wrestling began.