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Submitted by purpledaisies on Thu, 10/06/2011 - 12:43pm

Why am I not surprised..she did this a few years ago too. Anyway she no longer need the cage and so she isn't coming even though dh's dad said she was already planning on coming to see weather she needed the cage or not. I knew the only reason she was coming was to borrow the cage and she didn't care about seeing us or anything. Her excuse is she doesn't have the money and she wants to come with fil so she will wait. However the same thing happened a few years ago they were supposed to come see us but made up an excuse.

my step MIL is coming to our house!

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Wed, 10/05/2011 - 12:46pm

We have been married for over 8 years and we have been to their house at least 10 or more times. They live 8 hours away. They have NEVER been to our house ever! Well dh got a call from his dad asking if step MIL an borrow a travel bird cage (we have 2 big birds and he knows we have one). The reason is b/c step mil needs one to help her brother move as he a a big bird.

Entitlement at it's best.

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Wed, 10/05/2011 - 11:05am

As you ladies know sat was my bday. My dd came home from college and bought me a nice necklace and shirt. The necklace was a dragonfly which I love and have always loved dragonflies which is why she bought. I wore my necklace all day sat and that night and have been since I got it. Now i work nights and I had to work sat night.

Anyone else find this weird?

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Tue, 10/04/2011 - 1:58am

Every time we pock up skids ss15 is driving not in itself weird but when we drop them off bm is already there and in the passenger seat waiting for ss15 to drive. She is sitting there like a little girl waiting for her mom or dad to take her some where.

Now ss15 has his license but since he is still 15 he can not drive by himself yet as his DL is treated like a permit.

I find this more like she is giving ss15 WAY more power then he should have. This is just one thing on a long list of things she does to put ss15 in adult status.

Just thought I would share that I made my dh laugh all thanks to you ladies.

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Mon, 10/03/2011 - 3:49pm

Dh and I were talking on fri night when bm pulled her demanding crap about picking the boys up at her house but refused to drop ss15 off at our house. So in other words she refused to do what she expected and demanded from dh.

I told dh that I was tired of her thinking she an demand anything just b/c she has the golden uterus syndrome! LOL }:) I thought he was never going to stop laughing. Blum 3

Sorry blog hog today... update on the place mil took me to for my bday.

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Mon, 10/03/2011 - 10:14am

It was a winery and restaurant, I didn't see any kids at all! It was awesome with a wine tasting and then dinner and dessert and she gave me $50 BUCKS! It was a very nice visit and I was very relaxed lol. The place was very dark and cozy very good food or was that the wine. lol

I wanted to let everyone know b/c it was asked that I update it so i did. thanks
I had a great weekend.

Met the 6 yr and the family on sat.

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Mon, 10/03/2011 - 10:07am

it went very well. The boy was playing and talking and talked to us and my son. The 10 yr apologized again for the things she said to son. I told hugged her and told her not to worry about that and to put it out of her head. The mom was so sweet and asked son he was doing. It was very emotional for all of us. We talked about counseling and other things and how to get past it and also defusing others that have talked crap about son. She has been so strong and has been telling everyone to leave son alone that it was an accident and that he is too young for that crap.

Bm has to make everything more difficult then it really is.

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Mon, 10/03/2011 - 9:56am

SS15 had a football game he had to go to since he is in band. The game was over very late but dh did tell bm that he didn't care how lat it was he wold pick him up. Of course bm said NO and that he can pick him up at her house sat morn. First that is not fair second it is not right for her CHOOSE what dh does on HIS time.

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